silence is violence, right? we can't always do what we want in the moment, but we can speak up later if we missed our chance--for whatever reason. I think communicating your discomfort, as you did, is a good decision. We live in a world where discomfort frequently prevents us from speaking our minds. On the other hand, sometimes we don't think of what we want to say until later. We can't always be completely in the moment. As far as bad drunks, I have very little tolerance for them. They trigger me. You are a good person, that's obvious. Good luck with dealing with humanity. We all need it. be well